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5 Sex Positions To Get A Guaranteed Orgasm

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5 Sex Positions To Get A Guaranteed Orgasm

There are a lot of reasons to have sex, but the bliss of orgasm has to be high on the list. While orgasm is something that a lot of men experience regularly during sex, there are a lot of women for whom orgasmic sex is a relatively uncommon experience. So what can you do? Is there some magic position which will guarantee an orgasm?

Truth be told, there are no sex positions to guarantee orgasm, but there are plenty of amazing sex positions that can make it much more likely for you to be able to experience climax.

Road Blocks to Orgasm

If you’re a woman who has a hard time experiencing orgasm during intercourse, know that you’re not alone. There are a lot of reasons why a person might have difficulty experiencing orgasm. First and foremost, intercourse alone does not always offer the clitoral stimulation that a lot of women need in order to climax. And don’t worry—there is nothing wrong with requiring clitoral stimulation to experience orgasm. After all, we hardly blame men for not orgasming unless they have direct penile stimulation!

Secondly, emotional and physical issues can interfere with sexual satisfaction. If you’re not getting enough sleep, if you’re sick, or if you’re stressed, you’ll have a much harder time giving into the moment and relaxing enough to experience arousal and orgasm. Additionally, negative emotions like shame, guilt and embarrassment can make it much harder to orgasm, no matter which amazing sex positions you use. Ironically, being overly goal-oriented in one’s approach to orgasm can also make achieving climax much harder.

Focus on self-acceptance, sensuality, health and relaxation, and climax will come much more easily. When those pieces fall into place, the following sex positions are about as close as you’ll come to a guaranteed orgasm.

1. Woman on Top

Woman on top is a great option for some women who are struggling with orgasm. Being on top allows you to move exactly how you want: it puts you in control of the angle, speed, and depth of thrusting, which can sometimes make it easier to let loose and follow the sensations that encourage achieving climax.

Woman on top is also an amazing sex position for getting the extra clitoral stimulation you need to orgasm. If you lean forward on your partner a little and rub up against him, you can use his pubic bone and lower abdomen to stimulate your clitoris. Alternately, either you or he can use a free hand to stimulate you while you’re on top of him.

2. Doggy Style

Some women report being able to orgasm through G-spot stimulation. If you’re one of these women, doggy style may be a good sex position for you. The G-spot is said to exist on the anterior (tummy) side of the vagina, a few inches up from the entrance. If your partner has a straight penis or one with a slight downward curve, doggy style can make it very easy for your partner to stimulate this spot. Whether or not it’s a sex position to guarantee orgasm, you might have quite a bit of fun with this one.

3. Spooning

Spooning is an amazing sex position because, unlike almost all others, it doesn’t require either of you to support yourself with your hands. This means there are four hands that can all do fun things which feel all kinds of allright, and give you the stimulation that you need for your climax. One of you might focus your hands on stroking your labia and clitoris around your partner’s penis, and the other might stroke your thighs, breasts, abdomen, or whatever other parts you find especially sexy. Plus, with his mouth right by your ear, spooning is the perfect position for listening to him whisper those sexy nothings you love.

4. Missionary Position

Often perceived as a boring position, missionary position sometimes gets a bad rap. But with just a tweak or two, it can come close to a sex position that guarantees orgasm. After your partner enters you, have him move up on your body so that as he thrusts the shaft of his penis rubs against your clitoris. This drastically increases your clitoral stimulation and your chances of satisfaction.

5. Outercourse

Intercourse is far from the only way to achieve orgasm. What some people term “outercourse” is a perfectly valid way to reach climax. Oral and manual stimulation aren’t just for foreplay—they can be great ways to pleasure each other no matter what you have planned. If you have difficulty achieving orgasm during intercourse, consider reaching orgasm through manual or oral stimulation, or through using a toy like a vibrator, then following up with intercourse afterward. There’s no rule that says orgasms experienced during intercourse are more “real” or more “valid” than ones achieved in other ways. This is a great way to enjoy both the closeness of intercourse and the more directed stimulation of outercourse.

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